The Inner Work Before You Reconnect Masterclass
How to know which one is yours, and the exact steps for both.
Path One: Heal from the breakup and move forward clean.
Path Two: Reconnect, and do it as a different relationship.
You leave with the steps for both, whichever one turns out to be yours.
Hosted Live by Thais Gibson
Founder, The Personal Development School · Bestselling author
Starts Thursday, November 19, 2026
Thursdays, 12:00–1:30 PM ET · 9:00 AM PT
Limited seats available
We’ll send you the Standards, Needs & Non-Negotiables worksheet as soon as you register.
What the 90 Minutes Covers
Three Things, Taught in This Order
Why your attachment patterns are the exact thing that broke the relationship: not incompatibility, not timing, not the thing you’ve been telling people
How to heal from a breakup, or decide whether to get back together, and why you cannot do the second one well until you’ve started the first
The steps for both paths, so you leave knowing which one is yours instead of relitigating it every morning
And in the middle, we do an exercise together: the Two Paths Audit. You map your own situation inside the structure. Most people have never seen their own relationship laid out that way, and seeing it is itself the shift.
Two and a Half Minutes on Why This Decision Is So Hard, and Where the Masterclass Starts
Captions included. Sound optional.
What You’ll Walk Away With
Everything Below Is Covered in the 90 Minutes, Live
The problem isn’t that you can’t decide. It’s that nobody has given you anything to decide with.
Free · 90 minutes, live · Thursdays, 12:00–1:30 PM ET
This is for anyone who genuinely doesn’t know yet. It isn’t a get-them-back class and it isn’t permission to move on. I’m not going to tell you what to do. What you’ll leave with is how to know.
Thais Gibson: Relationship Coach, PhD
Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory® didn’t come from a textbook. It came from a caseload. Beginning in 2013, Thais worked with clients week after week, eventually around forty a week, for years. She holds a PhD and is certified in hypnosis, NLP, and additional modalities, all focused on the subconscious mind. She kept noticing the same thing: people understood their patterns perfectly well and could not change them, because the patterns weren’t being run consciously.
Across those years of case notes, six domains recurred and consistently mapped to attachment style. Not one or two. All six, every time, in style-specific configurations. By 2015, the client files had been consolidated into a system. In 2018, the first workshops were published publicly. In 2020, Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory® was registered as a trademark.
Today, it’s the basis of PDS’s entire healing curriculum, 70+ courses, members in 145+ countries, and of the IAT Certification, which trains relationship coaches worldwide.
In this masterclass, you’re learning IAT from the person who built it, not an interpretation of it.
The Inner Work Before You Reconnect Masterclass
Free, 90 minutes, and live, so you can ask about your actual situation rather than a general one.
The Standards, Needs & Non‑Negotiables Worksheet
A downloadable worksheet that walks you through three lists: the standards you hold, the needs you have, and the non-negotiables you are not willing to trade away. It answers the question underneath all of this: what am I actually deciding against?
It arrives with your confirmation email, and it’s yours to keep whether or not you make it to the live session.
Your needs written down, in your words, instead of guessed at mid-argument
The standards you hold regardless of who the relationship is with
Criteria to bring to the exercise we do together on the night
Starts Thursday, November 19, 2026
Thursdays, 12:00–1:30 PM ET
Limited seats available